For families and caregivers
Help for parents, brothers and sisters, and everyone who supports a person with IDD, including a break for yourself.
For parents
- Take it one stage at a time. The Family Journey shows what to do now.
- Connect with other parents. They know what you are going through.
- Your state's Parent Training and Information Center helps with school, for free.
- Family Voices and Family-to-Family Health Information Centers help with health care and insurance.
Find your Parent Center · Family Voices · Parent groups near you
For brothers and sisters
Siblings often have the longest relationship with the person with IDD. They need information and support of their own, at every age.
- Sibshops are fun workshops for school-age siblings.
- The Sibling Leadership Network connects adult siblings and helps them plan for the future.
- Include siblings in future planning early. Future planning guide.
Sibling Leadership Network · Sibling Support Project and Sibshops
Respite: taking a break
Respite is short-term care that gives caregivers a break. It can be a few hours, an evening, or a weekend, at home or somewhere else.
- Many Medicaid waivers pay for respite.
- Some states have respite grants or vouchers while you wait for a waiver.
- Lifespan Respite programs in many states help families of all ages.
Getting paid as a family caregiver
Many state waivers let a family member be paid to provide support, especially through self-directed services. Rules differ by state and often exclude spouses or parents of minor children. Ask your waiver case manager.
Aging caregivers
Many adults with IDD live with parents who are 60 or older. Make a written plan now. Read When parents can no longer help and get on wait lists early.
Taking care of yourself
- Caregiver stress is real. It is okay to ask for help.
- Find a support group or counselor who understands disability.
- If you are in crisis, call or text 988, any time.
Last reviewed: October 2026. Laws, dollar amounts, and program rules change. Check with the agency named on this page before you make a decision.
