Caregiver resources

For families and caregivers

Help for parents, brothers and sisters, and everyone who supports a person with IDD, including a break for yourself.

For parents

  • Take it one stage at a time. The Family Journey shows what to do now.
  • Connect with other parents. They know what you are going through.
  • Your state's Parent Training and Information Center helps with school, for free.
  • Family Voices and Family-to-Family Health Information Centers help with health care and insurance.

Find your Parent Center · Family Voices · Parent groups near you

For brothers and sisters

Siblings often have the longest relationship with the person with IDD. They need information and support of their own, at every age.

  • Sibshops are fun workshops for school-age siblings.
  • The Sibling Leadership Network connects adult siblings and helps them plan for the future.
  • Include siblings in future planning early. Future planning guide.

Sibling Leadership Network · Sibling Support Project and Sibshops

Respite: taking a break

Respite is short-term care that gives caregivers a break. It can be a few hours, an evening, or a weekend, at home or somewhere else.

  • Many Medicaid waivers pay for respite.
  • Some states have respite grants or vouchers while you wait for a waiver.
  • Lifespan Respite programs in many states help families of all ages.

Search respite near you · ARCH National Respite Locator

Aging caregivers

Many adults with IDD live with parents who are 60 or older. Make a written plan now. Read When parents can no longer help and get on wait lists early.

Taking care of yourself

  • Caregiver stress is real. It is okay to ask for help.
  • Find a support group or counselor who understands disability.
  • If you are in crisis, call or text 988, any time.

Caregiver support near you

Last reviewed: October 2026. Laws, dollar amounts, and program rules change. Check with the agency named on this page before you make a decision.